Advice Diva: Kissing cousins dangerous territory.(Knight Ridder Newspapers)

Byline: Tara Solomon

Dear Advice Diva:

Six months ago I went to a family funeral. While I was there I met up with my cousin whom I haven't seen in 30 years.

Even though it was a sad occasion, we got along just like the old days when we were kids.

In the months after the funeral, we talked on the phone and sent e-mails and found out that we were both divorced and had each raised a family. We had so much in common that she invited me to her house.

I went and had such a good time, I think I have found my soul mate. I'm sure she feels the same way. Even though nothing happened, the family members are questioning us being together. …