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Living the dream.(My Turn)

The Sporting News

| March 01, 2004 | Meminger, Dean | COPYRIGHT 2004 Sporting News Publishing Co. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

Basketball is a game, but it has defined my life. My successes and failures have revolved around basketball. Right now, I'd have to say things are pretty good. I am the head coach of the Manhattanville College men's basketball team. You might ask, "What's a former NBA first-round draft pick doing coaching a small Division III college in the suburbs of New York City?" For me, it's living "the dream" that I've worked toward ever since I began my coaching career.

In 25 years as a coach, I've learned that it's pretty easy to set up a screen play or choose the right defense. The bigger challenge is making a personal connection to your players, the kind of connection you might have with your spouse or child.

I won plenty as a player. I won a title at Rice High School in New York City, the NIT championship at Marquette University and the NBA crown with the Knicks in 1973. I was blessed with great ability and extraordinary teammates, but I didn't realize how important coaching is until I tried it myself.

After I retired from the NBA in 1977, I thought it would be easy to land a good coaching job and carry a team to victory. That couldn't have been further from the truth. I did have some success, leading the New York Stars of the Women's Professional Basketball League to a championship in 1979-80. But the league folded shortly thereafter, and I realized the hard way that an NBA coaching gig might not come so easily.

There was another problem. Even though I wanted to coach my players in the right direction, my own life was headed the wrong way. I started using cocaine in the 1970s as a player, which was hardly unusual in those days. But as time moved on, my addiction grew stronger and more destructive. No matter how hard I tried to kick it completely, I kept getting caught up in the same cycle of abuse. That's the thing about drugs--you can always come up ...

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