"Ready or not ...".(intercourse)

I CLIMAX FASTER THAN MY WIFE. In order to balance the problem, I try to stop or pause our intercourse when I get close. But that affects her and she's unable to climax. What do we do?

A: Great news for couples who struggle with a fast ejaculatory response: your problem is not "abnormal." The male sexual response curve from arousal to climax is usually much faster than the female's.

Recognize ways your wife's arousal can be enhanced by identifying her early "pre"-foreplay factors. She needs time to shift gears from her busy life concerns. This can include focused conversation. Most women desperately want time with a husband who is totally tuned in to them and …