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An expensive lesson: I lost the scholarship and had no one to blame but myself.(MY LIFE ON CAMPUS)

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| December 01, 2005 | Schmelzer, Kate F. | COPYRIGHT 2005 Christianity Today, Inc. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

It was finally here! I clicked on the e-mail from my admissions counselor and waited while the message loaded. I'd applied for a $5,000 leadership scholarship from the college I'd chosen, and I was expecting to hear good news.

My high school years had been devoted to church ministry and school leadership positions, and I was pretty confident that my hard work and dedication would literally pay off.

The message appeared, but it wasn't what I expected: "Thank you for applying for our leadership scholarship. Unfortunately, you were not among those chosen."

"What?" I shouted, feeling tears rush to my eyes. "This must be a mistake!"

As I read the e-mail through, I felt even worse. I wasn't rejected because I lacked any qualification. The real reason was that I'd just barely made the application deadline. Students who qualified and sent in their applications earliest were the ones selected.

At first, I was angry about not winning: Who are these people who won the scholarship over me? I thought.

But I knew I was directing my hurt and angry feelings toward the wrong people. I really only had myself to blame for losing out on this opportunity.

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