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I'm sexually attracted to trashy girls. When it comes to relationships though, I fall in love with pure, wholesome women. Unfortunately, they don't turn me on in the same way. I want to get married and settle down someday, but I want an exciting sex life with my wife. What should I do?
What you describe is called the Madonna/ whore complex, and many men suffer from it. The reason why you're turned off by "pure" women is because you feel that sex somehow makes them "dirty." At the same time, you aren't willing to connect emotionally to a woman who lets loose in the bedroom. What you're not understanding here is that a woman can be both. The "trashy" girls who turn you on harbor a deep desire to be respected, cherished, and loved for more than a night or two of hot sex. As for the "pure, wholesome" women you fall in love with, most of them have sexual ...
Source: HighBeam Research, Trashy turn-on. (Agony).(attracted to less wholesome types)(Brief...