Why guys really dump women: make these mating missteps and you'll end up on his least-wanted list. (his point of view).

* Yeah, yeah, we know we're not perfect. Far from it. And we don't expect you to be either. But there are some flaws of female behavior we simply can't see past. So if you've ever been ditched and had absolutely no freakin' idea why, it's entirely possible it was due to one of the following flubs.

you had an agenda

Yes, men have a rep for being commitmentphobic. And while it's somewhat justified (okay, entirely-justified), it's because at some point every guy has encountered a woman who tried to microwave the relationship. Ky, 26, explains: "I'd been dating Maria for six months when she asked me to pick up her mail while she was away on business," he remembers. "My stomach dropped when I discovered that she subscribed to three bridal magazines. I wasn't ready for the white picket fence and 2.5 kids, but obviously site was. I couldn't break up with her fast enough."

you couldn't keep your jealousy in check

Whether it's being suspicious of our every move or needlessly bad-mouthing any hot chick that crosses your path, green-eyed tendencies turn us off big-time. By far, the sexiest trait in a woman is self-confidence--and jealousy is a sure sign you don't I have it.

"On our third date, I took Jen to dinner," remembers Charles, 28. "The waitress was really friendly, and after she took our order, Jen said I was more than welcome to take her out instead. Her comment was totally uncalled for, so a few weeks later, I did just that." Sometimes a little ...