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My guy claims to have a lot of student loans and credit-card debt, so I pay for everything, including the rent. Well, the other day, I found some of his bank statements. As it turns out, he has more than $20,000 in savings. I feel hurt and angry. How do I confront him?
What you want is information, and you will get that only if you stay cool. Confront him by all means, but do it calmly. Tell him what you found but act puzzled, not furious, and certainly not hurt. Listen to his explanations and judge for yourself if they hold water. Maybe he is one of those to whom money represents security and safety and he's scared to spend it. Perhaps $20,000 is to the penny exactly what he needs to finally pay off his debts. Or maybe he really ...