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Same-sex suspicion. (Agony).(Brief Article)

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| September 01, 2002 | Kurtz, Irma | COPYRIGHT 2002 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

My boyfriend's best friend is a really good-looking gay guy. They are always doing stuff together, including going out to gay bars, and sometimes my boyfriend even crashes at his place if he's too drunk to drive. I'm starting to wonder if they are having an affair. What should I do?

It is great when a straight guy is comfortable with a gay friend's sexuality. But it sounds as though your boyfriend and his gay friend are a little too close for comfort. I am not suggesting that your boyfriend is gay or bisexual or that he is using you as a "beard" to hide behind until he feels ready to come out. But even if you two have a frisky sex life, you do have reason to wonder. After all, gay clubs exist for just one reason, and a supposedly straight guy who goes to them is eider curious or in need of male attention. Also, when your boyfriend is drunk and stays over at his friend's place, I assume his friend is probably drunk ...

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