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Flirting with disaster. (Agony).(advice)(Brief Article)

Cosmopolitan

| August 01, 2002 | Kurtz, Irma | COPYRIGHT 2002 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

Although I really enjoy sex, I get off more on teasing men. I string them along for months, making them believe that I'm really hot for them. But then I always pull away when things get physical. Why is being a tense such a turn-on?

You say you enjoy sex, but do you? Anyone who does actually likes to have it. Flirting is a game and it's fun. But to find pleasure in torturing men is cruel, not to mention dangerous. No man likes to be toyed with, and some can even turn aggressive when they don't get their way. Maybe you like the danger, or maybe you are challenging the guy--who's bigger and physically stronger--to call your bluff. Or maybe you have such a shaky opinion of yourself that you need the constant desirous admiration of men to make you feel secure. Regardless, it is time for a change. First, ...

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