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Agony.(boyfriend's reluctance to have sex)

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| January 01, 2002 | Kurtz, Irma | COPYRIGHT 2002 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

"Even though my boyfriend and I have been together for months, he refuses to have sex with me. What's going on?"

sex shy guy

My boyfriend and I have been together for six months, and everything is perfect except for one thing: We've never had intercourse. He's capable of getting erect, but he always comes up with excuses about why he doesn't want to have sex--he's tired, stressed, or whatever. Any advice?

Since this problem has gone on for some time, I'd say your boyfriend's reluctance has more to do with trepidation than exhaustion or stress. Perhaps he tried in the past to make love to girls and failed because he was too nervous. As a result, ...

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