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* A guy who's devious enough to dog you isn't going to advertise it by showing up at your place smelling like he was accosted by a saleswoman at Perfumania. That said, a guy who has someone else on his mind (or in his bed) will inevitably exhibit some behaviors that can tip you off to his cheatin' heart. The secret is knowing what slipups to be on the lookout for.
he has `mention-itis'
The easiest way to determine if he's adding a name to his personal to-do list is if he starts continually bringing her up. He may say "Oh, Carrie, that girl I work with, loves this song" or (even trickier) he may bad-mouth his lust object to you by saying, for example, "This woman Carrie in accounting is so freakin' annoying." Chris *, 27, found himself running off at the mouth about his extracurricular chick. "After I first started flirting with Jessica, she was on my mind constantly," he recalls. "I just couldn't resist telling whoever was around--including my girlfriend at the time--the most inane stories about her."
he has new interests
Men like new things as much as we like broccoli, paying taxes, and coughing in doctors' offices with our boxers around our ankles. So if your guy suddenly develops an interest in something that was never on his radar before--anything from that new hip-hop/polka hybrid to Bolivian filmmakers of the early 20th century--he just might be brushing up on a new subject to impress her. "I'd been with my girlfriend for a year when I met a hot cooking student," says Ben, 27. "Right after we hooked up for the first time, I started obsessively watching the Food Network. I wanted to be able to have a clue when she talked about redwine reduction or ratatouille."
he goes to bed after you
If you say "Meet you in bed" with a giggle and he says "I'm just going to watch this Jackie Chan movie on Pay-Per-View--I'll be there in a few, um, hours," then he may be getting his water supply from another well. "For a while before I broke it off with my ex, our sex life really tanked," ...
Source: HighBeam Research, Weird signs he might be straying: skip searching for hard evidence....