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"My boyfriend wants to watch another man have sex with me. Should I go through with it just to please him?".(advice column)(Column)

Cosmopolitan

| September 01, 2001 | KURTZ, IRMA | COPYRIGHT 2001 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

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My boyfriend keeps begging me to have sex with another man while he watches, and he says that he'd love me even more if I'd agree. I asked how he could bear seeing me with another guy if he loves me. His answer was that love and sex are two different things. Should I do it?

He says he'd love you more? Nonsense. Love is constant, Jove is absolute--it either is or isn't. In other words, if he loves you, he can't love you "more," and if he doesn't Jove you, then no machinations will make him do so. He's using his supposed love to manipulate you into doing something that you may or may not wish to do. As for sex and love being separate: Are ...

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