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Readers share the parent-pleasing tactics their guys used to win over Mom and Dad.
"Both of my older sisters have been married and divorced, so my fiance had a hard time convincing my parents that he was in our relationship for the long haul. He had spent time with my family on many occasions, but they just wouldn't warm up to him. When my nephew's birthday party was approaching, I suggested that my boyfriend skip the festivities to avoid any awkwardness, but he was determined to win over my parents. All day, he was crawling around on the floor with the kids, smearing cake on his face, and even making balloon animals. When my mother took me aside, I was sure she would comment on his immaturity, but instead she told me that a man who loved kids that much understood the importance of family, and she finally felt ready to welcome him into ours."
Jill, 24
"While visiting my parents, I took a drive through the mountains one evening to think, and my car broke down. Luckily, I had brought my cell phone, but I kept getting my parents' answering machine. I decided to call my boyfriend at our apartment, two hours away. I felt bad that he had to drive so far, but he didn't want to leave me alone out there. When Brian pulled up, I was so relieved that I started to cry. As soon as we got to my parents' house, my dad came running out. My parents had just gotten home and were frantic after hearing my messages. When they found out that my boyfriend had driven hours to pick me up, they were very impressed. They invited him to spend the weekend with us and even let him share a room with me, which my overprotective father usually forbids. My dad never likes my boyfriends, but he has a soft spot in his heart for the man who saved his little girl."
Donna, 20
"My mother is from Russia and has a big problem with my dating non-Russian guys, so I had some concerns about introducing her to Kevin because of his Italian background. But Kevin bought a language book and learned a bunch of Russian phrases, including 'I love your daughter.' Not only that, but he invited my mother to his apartment and cooked a traditional Russian meal for her. She felt that any ...