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Here's how Casino's Agony columnist, Irma Kurtz, would solve these onscreen sitches.
CARRIE'S CONUNDRUM
My married ex wants to romp, and I can't resist. What's behind my self-destructive behavior?
Self-destructive? Nuh-uh. The one you want to destroy is him. You are using his weakness for you as a weapon to keep him from settling into wedded bliss--and to get even. By giving in, you are only tarnishing your own inner beauty.
MIRANDA'S MESS
I'm a career girl ready to buy an apartment. Will this signal to guys that I'm too independent to settle down with?
A woman's independence only scares off boys; should you meet the man for you, he'll be fine with your autonomy. The secret: Pick lovers who are grown-ups themselves.