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You've probably heard male friends sing the praises of girls who are "crazy in bed." But there's such a thing as good wild (he sees your uninhibited side) and bad wild (he has to see a chiropractor or shrink 'after the act). So to make the distinction, we asked hundreds of men via a Cosmo Web poll how far they like women to push the passion envelope.
The Moves They Crave
One irrefutable finding of our survey: Guys dig women who are enthusiastic in bed. That may mean being up for giving and receiving oral sex, wearing hot lingerie, or asking to go multiple rounds. "Going down on a guy and wearing sexy underwear signal that you are really into him ... and are willing to go that extra mile to stimulate him visually and physically," says clinical psychologist Victoria Zdrok, PhD, author of Dr. Zon Scoring. Men also want a woman who loves sex and isn't afraid to sample new things. When asked what words they associate with good-crazy chicks, guys said adventurous, experimental, and creative.
What Can Freak Them Out
While men appreciate it when you shake things up in the sack, they do have boundaries (who knew?). Some respondents described such activities as anal sex, playing with their back door, being into S and M, and offering to bring another woman to bed as over-the-top for them personally.
But even guys who are kinkier sometimes don't like it when a woman kick-starts the action. "It seems that men want you to be open to experimentation in the ...