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Touching a man near his package in any way--with your hand, with your mouth, with your grocery cart at the store is usually good enough to rev his engine. But "good enough" isn't always good enough. Like you, guys desire many sensations all over their body. "Exploring different forms of touch boosts his excitement and enhances his pleasure," says Patti Britton, PhD, author of The Art of Sex Coaching. So give him the scratch, squeeze, and bite--yes, bite he craves.
The S-Stroke Scratch
While a soft, tingly touch might do it for you, men like the hard stuff. So if you want him to get the same feel-good effect, you have to be a bit more pointed. "Start with a gentle caress, then begin raking his bare skin with your nails for a sharper, more acute pleasure," explains sex therapist Ian Kernel; PhD, author of Passionista. "Plus, if you move your nails in a swirling, circular pattern, rather than just up and down, it's a more unpredictable motion--This nerve endings are more engaged and more receptive because they aren't sure where you're going next."
Different pressures will be needed for different parts of his body, which vary from guy to guy. As for where to start, try Iris head. "One of my favorite things ever is when my girlfriend puts my head in her lap and grazes her nails over my scalp," says Chris, 35. "It's relaxing and feels incredible. After a few minutes of her scratching, I usually find that I'm totally turned on."
When his scalp is satisfied, take off his clothes and have him lie on the bed. Gently drag your nails in an S motion up his arms, over his chest, down his torso, and up and down his legs. As you get near sensitive spots like his nipples and inner thighs, teasingly veer off, building up the anticipation and keeping him in sexual suspense. You can even make missionary sex more enticing by dragging your nails over his back mad butt. And since the skin is particularly tough on those areas of his body, you can really go to town.
A Tight Grip