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What freaks her out in bed.(MAN MANUAL: cosmo for your guy)

Cosmopolitan

| December 01, 2008 | Azodi, Mina | COPYRIGHT 2008 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

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* It's not easy to tell someone his bedroom skills leave something to be desired, so your girl might not let you know your smooth moves are anything but. Don't worry. Cosmo's here to clue you in with this list of nooky no-nos.

Too Much Dirty Talk

Saying something naughty can up file thrill factor. But if you mouth off like you're in a low-budget porn flick, she might get weirded out ... or pissed. "Women read into what guys say, and that doesn't stop during sex," says Logan Levkoff, PhD, author of Third Base Ain't What It Used w Be. "If you get too raunchy, she may feel degraded." Prevent that from happening by starting off tame. Try saying, 'Tell me how good it feels." Take your cue from how dirty her response is.

Shutting Your Eyes

You don't need to gaze into her eyes the entire time--that's creepy. But if you never do it, she'll start to think you're fantasizing about her sister or trying to avoid seeing her fat elbow. Plus, believe it or not, looking into your eyes gives her the same kind of rush you get when she takes off her shirt. ''Women often crave a mental connection," says ...

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