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* At the beginning, you pulled out all the stops to impress her. But now that you've been together for a while, you are in a comfort zone and probably don't try as hard. If you don't want her to go looking elsewhere for the thrill of being doted upon, it's time to regain those excellent habits you once had.
Ask Her Questions
"People constantly change," says Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of the forthcoming Love in 90 Days. "Regularly inquiring about her life shows you recognize that." Find out how her meeting went or if her mom is enjoying the ninjutsu lessons. Checking in, listening, and following up shows you care so much that you even want to know about her daily drama.
Plan Dates
Asking "Whaddya wanna do this weekend?" is lazy--she knows you're making her do work you don't want to do. Come up with options. "Planning something will make her feel special and reassure her that you want to keep the bond strong," says psychologist and relationship coach Richard Nicastro, PhD. Whether it's renting an old movie she ...