Times you shouldn't text a guy: firing off too many messages can kill a budding relationship. We tell you when to step away from the cell.(COSMO NEWS: Relationships)

Casual electronic notes have become a huge part of dating, and experts speculate that texts have surpassed actual phone calls between many couples. So it's no wonder why you can find yourself with an itchy text-messaging trigger finger (or thumbs, rather) when in the throes of new love. But beware: There's such a thing as too much texting (what you might call TMT). "Overdoing it can freak guys out," says relationship expert Arlene Krieger, PhD. "They feel pressured into sending an instantaneous response."

There are several instances where texting can torpedo a relationship before it's barely gotten off the ground: After your first few dates. It may be tempting to contact a guy after an amazing date, but resist the urge. "Reaching out lessens the thrill of the chase for him," says psychologist Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of the upcoming book Love in 90 Days.

When you're drunk. Since phones don't come with Breathalyzers, it's up to you to stop yourself from sending a tipsy message--especially one that suggests you two meet up ASAP. "Being too available lets a guy know he has all the leverage," Krieger says.

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