The secret happy couples know: been together, like, forever? Reclaim that falling-in-love rush with fun date ideas he'll be into.(LOVE AND LUST)

When you first fall in love, everything you share produces an adrenaline rush because it's .all brand-new. But, as you've no doubt figured out, that mind-blowing novelty factor does inevitably start to dissipate, and you settle into more of a routine. That's when the love buzz is in danger of being replaced by, well, boredom.

But it doesn't have to turn out that way. Ongoing research shows couples can regain that new-relationship thrill by trying novel activities together. "Experiencing new things triggers the release of two brain chemicals, dopamine and norepinephrine--the same ones released when you're newly in love," explains Arthur Aron, PhD, social pyschologist at Stony Brook University. So get the punch-drunk love high back with these ideas.

Try Kayaking

If you live near a body of water, you're probably able to rent a kayak for a few hours. Take advantage of the weather before it gets too cold--it's a thrilling tandem activity that'll guarantee some laughs over your attempts at dipping the paddles simultaneously.

Hang With a Different Crew

Instead of always meeting up with the same friends, invite a few acquaintances out for appetizers or brunch. Ask lots of questions about their lives and share details of yours, so you feel like you get to know them better.

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