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When guys bail without warning: some men show no signs of unhappiness before a breakup--you just wake up one day stunned and solo. Cosmo unmasks this confusing breed of boyfriend.(COSMO NEWS: Relationships)

Cosmopolitan

| October 01, 2008 | Fahner, Molly | COPYRIGHT 2008 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

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George Clooney and cocktail-waitress-turned-B-model Sarah Larson seemed to have a picture-perfect relationship: They went on romantic trips, were attached at the hip on motorcycles as well as the red carpet, and had an attraction to each other that was palpable. That is, until it all evaporated one day about a year into the union. If you felt duped, imagine how Sarah felt!

But of course, George isn't the first guy to bolt without ever having sent up a red flare. In fact, experts say some men seek out--consciously or subconsciously--shorter-term, exclusive relationships for anywhere from 2 to 12 months, with no intention of going further. One theory as to why: These serial monogamists are chasing that intoxicating feeling of euphoria that's felt most intensely at the beginning of a romance.

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"At the start, there's a physical high from the sexual attraction two people have for each other, and it's also exciting because you're experiencing a lot of firsts together," says Los Angeles psychotherapist Vanessa Bell, PhD. Inevitably, though, you reach a plateau, and that's when some men look for an out. "It's not that they don't like relationships," insists Bell. "It's that they'd rather ...

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