The hottest words to say during sex: figuring out what dirty dialogue he craves is tricky. Plus, you don't want to sound canned or like a bad porn star. Here's help.(LOVE AND LUST)

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FOREPLAY

"At this early stage, it's key to use phrases that indicate your pleasure and arousal," says Michigan sex therapist Lori Hollander. "It's encouraging for him to know that his kiss is enough to get you worked up and bring you to that 'take me now' place." So try lines like "I want you," "I could kiss you forever," and "I can't keep my hands off you." Notes Hollander, "They all send the message that you find him irresistible."

If you want to take it up a notch, phrases like "Take your clothes off right now," "I'm getting so wet," and "I can practically feel you inside me" express your fast-building passion. He'll be ecstatic over the fact that you started out excited and have now reached the point where you're going wild, says Hollander.

THE MAIN EVENT

During oral sex and intercourse, guys want to know if they're doing a good job ... and they want specifics. According to Lori Buckley, PsyD, certified sex therapist in California, when you say "That feels so great," he'll wonder, What does?Try more detail, like "I love when you tilt your pelvis like that" or during oral, "Circling your tongue that way feels amazing."

Also, let him know you are ready to climax, because it builds his ...