Cosmo for your guy: sexy moves to try on her.(MAN MANUAL: The Sexy Issue)

[ILLUSTRATION OMITTED]

* A man's idea of sexy doesn't 'always jibe with what a woman finds carnally captivating. It's not that we despise a loving boob grab or being called baby--those things are fine. And that's the problem: They're just fine. Cosmo has come up with moves that'll take your efforts from fine to fantastic.

Ditch the Generic Compliment

When you say "You have a great ass,'" her immediate thought is Of course he thinks that--he's a butt guy. Instead, "pick out characteristics that are particular to her," says Los Angeles therapist Shannon Fox, PhD. For example, "It's so cute when your hair curls behind your ear like that" or "I love the little sigh you make when we're kissing" sounds so much more sincere. "Women don't mind hearing that they have a great body; it's just more meaningful--and believable when you pay a compliment that really taps in to her individuality," notes Fox.

Look at Her

During orgasm, it's natural to close your eyes and go off to some faraway pleasure island in your mind. But in order to show that ...