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* If foreplay is considered the appetizer to sex, then a great sheet session is comparable to a delicious entree at a five-star restaurant. But what about dessert? "There are few places and times where you and your partner are more physically and emotionally connected to each other than after sex," says certified sex educator Lou Paget, author of The Great Lover Playbook.
Just like everything else bedroom related, afterplay is very much about touch. But it's also about timing. That's why we've organized these moves according to the specific times when they're most erotically effective. Sample a few (or all) of these postnooky.
Second After Sex
* Immediately after climax, with your guy still inside you, run your fingers down his back, over his buttocks, and along his sides. Keep doing this technique in a slow rhythm up and down his back using a wavelike motion. Since most men's backs are very sensitive, it will soothe him and keep him stimulated at the same time.
* During sex, blood flow in the body rushes to the genitals. As it leaves, even the gentlest touch might be too much pressure for him, but lightly blowing on his package will help cool him off while his body settles down.
* Right after a red-hot mattress session, our egos are supervulnerable. So if there's something he did that drove you insane in a good way--from his technique to his kissing--now's the best time to tell him.
* Individually, most of us have a couple of postsex sweet spots: areas that are particularly receptive to being touched, licked, tickled, or kissed. They can be anywhere from your collarbone to the insides of your wrists, where the skin is thin. Experiment with him to find each of yours.
Source: HighBeam Research, Hot things to try after sex: if the most creative activity you and...