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Q I invited my date up to my place at the end of the evening. As soon as we got inside, he was all over me. When I told him I didn't want sex, he said, "Then why'd you ask me in?" and stormed out. Do guys assume an invite inside always includes sex?
A To be honest with you, yes. When you say, "Hey, want to come back to my place?" after a great date, what he hears is "Things went so well that I'd like to make sweet love to you." Why would he be so presumptuous? Well, I imagine that up until this point, the two of you have been in a neutral, public setting, like a restaurant or bar. So when you offer to move to a more private venue, he assumes you want to pursue ...