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Ask him anything: advice from our guy guru, Jonathan Small.(LOVE AND LUST)
Q This guy was hitting on my friend at a bar and asked for her number. When she told him she had a boyfriend, he turned his attention to me and asked my number. But up until then, he had been ignoring me. Is it pathetic if I go out with him?
A Pathetic? Nah. A wee bit desperate? Perhaps. Although this dude may be cute and all, he sounds like a total cad. If I had to guess, I'd say he's the type that heads out to a bar with his buddies, maybe takes bets on who's going to get some, and then, after a few beers, sets his sights on a target. His first choice was your friend, and once she rejected him, he settled for the next-best thing. Lucky you!
Now, I'm not saying that he doesn't like you. There is a chance that after chatting with you for a bit, he felt a genuine connection, and I wouldn't be surprised if he does call to ask you out (as well as any other girls he may have met that same weekend). Just be cautious--there's a good chance this guy is only looking for an easy lay.
So how can you figure out if this dude's a player or not? Well, assuming you don't really care about coming across as possibly desperate, go out with him a few times. If he seems more interested in getting inside your ...
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