Never lose an orgasm again: taking a hands-on approach during nooky guarantees your pleasure and gets your guy beyond hot. Learn how.(LOVE AND LUST)

* Every woman has been there. You're this close to reaching the O zone, when all of a sudden, it just slips away. Well, we've got a bedroom trick that practically guarantees an almost-there orgasm won't escape your gasp. Whether you require some extra stimulation throughout the whole sex session or only at that pinnacle moment, touching yourself south-of-the-border can send you over the edge. "Research shows that most women need to be pleasured manually either before or during intercourse to have an orgasm," says Laura Berman, PhD, author of The Passion Prescription. And because you know how your body works better than your guy does, he can't do the job quite as well as you can.

At first, it might feel kind a weird stroking your down-there terrain in front of a dude, but think about it this way--men do whatever it takes to have a mind-blowing orgasm and you should too. What's more, our Cosmo sex polls show time and again that guys want to see you touch yourself during the deed. "It 'also takes the pressure off because it's not totally up to him to ensure you climax," ...