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If there's one thing you don't want your girl griping about, it's your sexual performance. Find out what she finds annoying in the sack ... and how to fix it.
Scrimping on Foreplay
Sure, you're eager to get to the main event, but the number one thing female readers complain to Cosmo about is the fact that their men sometimes rush through the warm-up. "It takes a woman much longer to get aroused than it does a guy," says Kathleen A. Cervenka, PhD, author of In the Mood, Again. "If she's not ready for intercourse, she's not going to enjoy it as much." Some slow-burn suggestions: Take your time kissing her, run your fingers "all over her body before heading for her hot spots, and tease her below the belt until she's almost begging for it. Also, don't look at foreplay as a chore--there's a lot in it for you too.
Too-Rough Touches
You might like to get it on with gusto, and sometimes, she does too. Still, you have to be careful not to go overboard. "Men tend to like sex a little harder or faster with more intense stimulation," says California-based sex therapist Michael Perry, PhD, creator of the What Women Really Want DVD. "He may not realize that a woman needs to be handled more gently." A general rule of thumb: Touch her three ...
Source: HighBeam Research, What women dislike in bed.(cosmo for your guy)