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Guys' #1 sex hang-up: small penis? Nope. Can't it up? Think again. His chief bedroom conundrum is a too-soon climax.(LOVE AND LUST)

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* At some point, just about every guy has gotten overly excited and blasted off too quickly. But here's a stat that may shock you: "About 20 percent of men experience premature ejaculation (PE) on a chronic basis," says Ivan Grunberger, MD, vice chairman of urology at Long Island College Hospital. And since more and more guys claim to suffer from performance anxiety these days--one cause of PE--that number may be on the rise, according to James Barada, MD, director of the Albany Center for Sexual Health.

Which means if you haven't already encountered a speedy peaker, there's a good chance you will. In fact, we decided to do our own poll of guys and found that 47 percent of them have orgasmed in less than two minutes during sex. And half of those guys admitted to being mortified enough by their rapid climax to not ask out the girl again. Thankfully, there are things you can do to help him last longer and ensure that you get plenty of pleasure too.

PE Primer

Premature ejaculation is defined as climaxing in less than two minutes during intercourse, oral sex, or manual stimulation. The reasons it happens? Some guys who suffer from PE experience more intense below-the-belt sensation. Others orgasm too soon due to psychological reasons, such as pressure at work or anxiety about their sack skills. "Stress causes levels of adrenaline and dopamine to rise," explains Ian Kerner, PhD, sex therapist and author of She Comes First. "This makes the guy more aroused and less in control of his orgasm."

Another culprit: masturbation. "Men often focus on finishing fast when masturbating since climaxing is the goal," ...

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