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* Even if your girlfriend is super comfortable with you in the sack, chances are good she hasn't divulged all of her deepest doing-it desires. That's why we decided to clue you in to her occasional lusty longings. Gentlemen, some nights she'd secretly like to ...
Relinquish Control
Frankly, chicks often dig it when their man shows them who's boss in the bedroom. "Women today lead stressful lives with lots of responsibility and in turn welcome the opportunity to surrender sexual power once in a while," says sex columnist Josey Vogels, author of Bedside Manners. "Plus, when her man is in the driver's seat, she's better able to simply lie back and allow herself to indulge in every sensation." Reason enough for you to take charge sometimes.
Call the Shots
On the flip side, as much as your girlfriend might like ceding control, she may also revel in taking the reins on occasion. The trouble is, "Although a woman may enjoy dominating, leading the action can be intimidating to her," says sex therapist Aline Zoldbrod, PhD, author of Sex Talk. To help ease your girl into the role of carnal commander in chief, give her clearance to rule the romp by saying something along the lines of "Tonight, I'm ...