Great ways to spend a weekend with him: mapping out downtime with your guy can suck the romance potential right out of it. Instead, throw in some of these sensual spur-of-the-moment moves hat require minimal effort. Just pick and choose and see where the day (or night) takes you.

Friday Night

* Forget having a formal dinner and grill up giant panini. Brush pieces of rustic bread with melted butter, then pile on ham, thin pineapple slices, cheese (try Gruyere, Brie, or cheddar), and ground pepper. Cook in a hot frying pan for five minutes on each side, pressing down on the top piece of bread with a spatula.

* Sit at opposite ends of the tub and slowly massage each other's feet. Keep an icy bucket of beer by the side of the bath or blast cool water from the showerhead for an instant refresher.

* Lock your cells and Blackberrys in the car for 24 hours. Being incommunicado for a day will recharge your batteries.

* Meet up for a late dinner--say, at 10 p.m.--at a restaurant that has a lounge with a good deejay. Have your friends join you at midnight for some thank-God-it's-Friday partying.

* If you're in the mood for take-out, order in ribs but make it feel special by drinking a wine that complements the dish (in this case, a cabernet). Then eat them with your fingers ... over candlelight.

* Program his PDA to go off at 11 p.m. with a beeping reminder that says "Time to get naked."