Needy moves you must nix: check out the four ways that women often come off as too dependent.(his point of view)

* A needy woman is a bigger buzz kill than seeing our boss--our male boss--naked in the gym locker room. The problem is, a lot of chicks have no clue when they're acting like the human version of Velcro. But after reading this list of things that make guys beg for breathing room, you won't be able to claim ignorance.

Seeking His Approval

We have enough of our own doubts to deal with without having to reassure you perpetually. So asking us to weigh in on your most minute decisions ('Should I get bangs?') is a guaranteed system meltdown. Sure, we want to be consulted on major issues, like if you're thinking about leaving town, but for everything else, assume our two cents isn't even worth that. "My girlfriend's sister won't buy a pair of earrings without getting her boyfriend's okay," says Nelson *, 28. "Unless he's paying, I guarantee he doesn't give a damn. I'm so glad my woman has more confidence in her decision-making abilities."

Relying on Him for Fun

Since most women are born social organizers, it's off-putting to find yourself with a girl who expects you to provide the entertainment. That makes us feel like we're leaving you in the lurch every time we have to work late, go out of town, or hang with the boys. Don't be afraid to do your own thing, like 31-year-old Tim's girlfriend does. "I was dying to watch the game with the guys, but my girlfriend and I had ...