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4 sneaky ways to hook him: getting your guy just a little bit jealous can be a very good thing.(his point of view)

Cosmopolitan

| January 01, 2005 | Sheftell, Jason | COPYRIGHT 2005 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

* Here's an uncensored truth about guys: We get bored easily. If we think we have your devotion locked up, we want it less. That's why it's key for you to ramp up the excitement by making your man slightly jealous. If a dude thinks he's in danger of" being second string, he'll work his ass off to be your number one. Here's how to do it:

Turn Down a Date

Of course you want to see him, but don't give in to the temptation every time he suggests hanging out. Once in a while, pass up an invite without an elaborate explanation. "I went on a few great dates with this girl I really liked," says Alex, 28. "She seemed into me too, but then I asked her out again and she said she was busy. I assumed she must be going out with someone else, which made me more determined to win her over." See? Make us wary, of a potential testosterone takeover and we'll step it up.

Get Busy

It's not what you think, dirty girl. We know you've heard this before, but it's really true: No guy wants your every move to hinge upon him, so have a life of your own. Take it from Curt, 31: "If I don't call the woman I'm seeing early in the week to make plans for the weekend, she books up solid," he says. "Sure, it's contrary to every male bone in my body ...

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