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Guys love carnal communication, but the vocals that turn them on the most vary. Our recent sex poll found that 52 percent of men are moved by moans and sighs, while 37 percent dig outfight dirty talk. "The key is to determine what you feel good doing and what your man wants to hear, then work from there," says Aline P. Zoldbrod, PhD, sex therapist and author of Sex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You On. "Even just some heavy breathing can make sex more mind-blowing." There's no need to consult the Spice channel for tutelage; just follow our easy manual.
STEP 1
get psyched
Put yourself into the right mind-set. Listen to tunes that turn you on, read racy fiction, or conjure up steamy scenarios involving you and your dude. Do some deep breathing and let your body totally relax. Then experiment with sounds you could utter the next time you're in the sack. (Hey, you're solo here, so no worries about coming off lame.) "People don't realize that being vocal in bed isn't just about personality; it's also about practicing," says Regena Thomashauer, author of Mama Gena's Owner's and Operator's Guide to Men.
STEP 2
make some noise
Now bring your sultry sounds to the bedroom. Since guys say it's the hottest ruckus you can make on the mattress, start off with a purr or an mmmm, or simply breathe heavily, Cha-ching! Your beau will be burning up. "This kind of feedback ...
Source: HighBeam Research, How to sound sexy in the sack: the hottest ways to mmmoan, gasp, and...