AccessMyLibrary provides FREE access to over 30 million articles from top publications available through your library.

Ask Cosmo anything.

Cosmopolitan

| January 01, 2004 | Kurtz, Irma | COPYRIGHT 2004 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

eyes wide shut

My boyfriend never opens his eyes when we're Having sex. I've asked him to look at me, but he won't. I'm starting to feel as if he's not attracted to me or he's imagining other women while we're together. What do you think?

I want you to go out and buy the most luscious chocolate cake you can find. Take it home and just look at it for 20 minutes or so. Then take a bite and let it melt in your mouth. Are your eyes open? If so, there's something wrong with the cake. When a treat is so good and so decadent, you can't help but close your eyes and let the sweet sensation take over. In the same way, when your boyfriend makes love to you, you ...

Related articles from newspapers, magazines, journals, and more
Group Sex in Gay Men: Its Meaning and HIV Prevention Implications.
Magazine article from: Journal of the Association of Nurses in AIDS Care Sowell, Richard L. Lindsey, Craig Spicer, Troy May 1, 1998 700+ words
...explore the experiences of group sex in gay men to gain insight into the meaning...renewed interest in "casual" sex among gay men, this situation has profound...explore the experiences of group sex in gay men to gain insight into the meaning...
Perceived erotic value of homosexuality and sex-role attitudes as mediators of...
Magazine article from: The Journal of Sex Research Louiderback, Laura A. Whitley, Bernard E., Jr. March 22, 1997 700+ words
...of lesbians and gay men, but men's...their ratings of gay men. To provide a...understanding these sex differences...roles for the sexes, and perceptions...traditional pattern of sex roles, including lesbians and gay men. Research on...
Condomless sex: gay men, barebacking, and harm reduction.
Magazine article from: Social Work Shernoff, Michael April 1, 2006 700+ words
...sexually active gay men began using condoms...returning to the ways of sex before the onset...variety of reasons gay men engage in bareback sex. These include attitudes...with whom he has sex and from whom he...validation. Many gay men of color cite social...
Sex Differences in How Heterosexuals Think About Lesbians and Gay Men: Evidence...
Magazine article from: The Journal of Sex Research Herek, Gregory M. Capitanio, John P. November 1, 1999 700+ words
...Whitley, 1998), sex differences in levels...with lesbians and gay men (Herek & Capitanio...attitudes toward gay men and toward lesbians...that have examined sex differences in heterosexuals...toward lesbians and gay men on the one hand...
Return of the bug chaser: a controversial documentary on gay men who seek HIV...
Magazine article from: The Advocate (The national gay & lesbian newsmagazine) Lisotta, Christopher February 17, 2004 700+ words
...there was such a dearth of safe-sex messages for gay men. Many young gay men still seek inclusion through sex, he says, and it leads to irresponsible...who cruises Interact chat rooms for sex. He believes gay men "shouldn't be worried about HIV...
Same-sex harassment: gay men and lesbians being harassed in the workplace are...
Magazine article from: The Advocate (The national gay & lesbian newsmagazine) Bull, Chris November 25, 1997 700+ words
...employment. While same-sex sexual harassment does not always involve gay men and lesbians, they...effectively grants same-sex sexual harassers immunity. "As gay men and lesbians come...Defenders, more than 200 gay men and lesbians called...calls concerned ...
Unsafe sex rates increase among older gay men.
Newspaper article from: AZ Daily Star (Tucson, AZ) July 18, 2005 700+ words
...lifestyle, many gay men in Tucson once again are risking unsafe sex -- a trend blamed...time the 'safe sex' message worked...among many older gay men is that contracting...among mostly Anglo gay men -- or "men who have sex with men (MSM...
Risky business: as many gay men continue to have unsafe sex, AIDS educators...
Magazine article from: The Advocate (The national gay & lesbian newsmagazine) Gallagher, John March 17, 1998 700+ words
...is devoted to helping gay men maintain their commitment to safer sex by strengthening the ties...Receptive unprotected anal sex is one of the most efficient...contracting HIV. Not all gay men believe that the current guidelines for safer sex are accurate. "I think...
Study finds significant number of young gay men practicing unsafe sex. (IX...
Newspaper article from: AIDS Weekly June 21, 1993 700+ words
...significant number of gay men in San Francisco, California...continue to practice unsafe sex, and roughly one in...percent of these young gay men reported that they had...reduction, a lot of younger gay men still are not practicing safe sex." Osmond presented...
Addicted to dot-com sex: with sex options on the Net almost as plentiful as...
Magazine article from: The Advocate (The national gay & lesbian newsmagazine) Quittner, Jeremy February 4, 2003 700+ words
...project, upward of 20% of gay men exhibit some sexually addictive...a problem in their lives. "Sex for gay men in particular is such a stigmatizing...the Internet may exacerbate sex addiction problems for gay men. "The Internet provides a...
For more facts and information, see all results

Source: HighBeam Research, Ask Cosmo anything.

©2009 Gale, a part of Cengage Learning. All rights reserved.
About us | FAQs | Contact us | Privacy policy | Terms and conditions
Other Gale sites: Encyclopedia.com | HighBeam Research | Acquire Content | Books & Authors | Goliath | MovieRetriever | Smart QandA