The moan zone men ignore most: if your guy neglects your nipples, your missing out on mucho bliss. Finesse his foreplay skills with these sensational tips.(Love And Lust)

* Sure, they'll come in handy when you need to nurse your babies one day, but the only purpose nipples seem to serve in the pre-mommy years is providing an instant weather update to everyone in sight. Most guys, in fact, tend to rush past the "N-spot" on their way to the ultimate goal. But your nipples are actually pleasure buttons, capable of priming you for passion. "No matter how hot your sex life is, it has the potential to be even hotter if you can teach your man the right way to touch and tease this part of your body," says patty Britton, PhD, clinical sexologist and coauthor of The Complete Idiot's Guide to Sensual Massage. Here, The secrets to nipple in nirvana.

a primer on your pointers

Before you can transform your man into a pro headlight handier, it helps to understand your own anatomy. A quick lesson: A nipple consists of two parts--the tip and the areola (the surrounding circle of pigmented skin). Both areas are packed with supersensitive nerve endings, which make the tips stand at attention at the slightest stimulation. But what's even more amazing is that "there's a direct connection between the nerves in your nipples and your clitoris," explains Michael Ra Bouchard, PhD, clinical sexologist and director of the Aloha Sexual Health and Happiness Center in Maul, Hawaii. That's why the right stroke or squeeze leaves you tingling down below.

give him a hand

To tap in to this pleasure pipeline, guide your man's hand to one of your twin peaks and give him a dirty demo. Then experiment with different types of touch. Some women find they get really revved by gentle caresses; others go for more aggressive tweaking or pushing. Some moves he'll want to ...