4 questions all guys can't stand: take note of the killer queries no sane man would attempt to answer.(his point of view)

* Guys aren't allergic to responding to questions on topics like our favorite sex position (um, 'all of them) or how our rock-hard abs got so damn rock hard. But before you channel Barbara Waiters, know that certain queries guarantee an eye roll and a sigh. They're the ones with no right answers. Here, painful probes we hate to be asked, let alone reply to.

What's on your mind?

Putting us on the spot with this one--especially after sex--is annoying. It's like you're trying to force us to spout some relationship epiphany. Chances are the only thing bogging down our brains are thoughts of what snacks are in the fridge. Says Rod *, 27: "My ex 'always wanted to know what was on my mind, and nine times out of 10, it had nothing to do with her. But if I fessed up the truth, she'd get all huffy and insulted. She took it to mean we weren't on the same wavelength. Eventually, I agreed and broke up with her."

Do you think she's hot?

You might as well ask "Do you think she's hotter than me?" That's what you're really getting at. Decent boyfriends pay compliments at random--that's why we think it's lame when you fish for them conspicuously. Besides, even if we think someone else is smokin', it doesn't mean you're not. But if we acknowledge that another chick is good-looking, we're screwed. "This girl I was dating 'always pointed out pretty girls and asked my opinion," says Bert, 24. "Over time, I caught on that she was seriously insecure." News flash: There's nothing sexier than confidence.

Would you tell me if your friend were cheating?

Rarely will we rat out a member of our posse, even if we think he's acting like a total ass. If we tell you that our friend is a two-timer, we're bound to be deemed guilty by association. That, or you'll expect us to cut off the philandering friend. Dermot, 31, can relate: "I ...