Sex drive nosedive.(Guy Question)(Brief Article)

My girlfriend seems to have very little interest in having sex with me in the last couple of months. She says she's too tired, too distracted, or just not in the mood. But she masturbates at least three times a week. We're still very affectionate with each other, and I know that she still loves me. So why doesn't she want to have sex with me?

If you said your girlfriend had lost her sex drive completely, I would have assumed she was coping with stress at work or in her personal life. But since she apparently finds plenty of time to please herself, my guess is that her issue is about having sex with you. Before you start berating yourself for being a lousy lover, think about whether you've noticed any changes in her recently. Has she been complaining about her looks or her body? Often, when a woman is feeling insecure, the last thing she wants is to get naked with a man. If you believe this to be ...