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Cosmo for your guy: what she craves from you in bed.(Man Manual)(Brief Article)

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| May 01, 2004 | Benjamin, Jennifer | COPYRIGHT 2004 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

* When you're getting it on with a girl, you want to make sure she's enjoying herself. Okay, finding her G-spot is a start, but you need to work her ego as well. Deep breaths, you can do this. Besides, the sexier you make her think she is, the hornier she's bound to be. Read on to learn the things you can do to boost her confidence in the sack.

To Feel Loved

You don't have to be head over heels for a chick to hook up, but at least show her you care. "Sex is an emotional experience for women," says Wendy PhD, a sex therapist in New York City and associate professor of human sexuality at Baruch College. She wants to know the guy she's sleeping with doesn't just look at her as some conquest."

To reinforce your affection, Kyman suggests saying your honey's name and looking into her eyes during the act. Of course, it never hurts to let an "I love you" fly, but if you're not at that point in the relationship yet, a simple "I'm so into you" followed by some postgame cuddling will do.

To Feel Sexy

Many women believe guys will get it on with anything that moves. So although you think being in her bed is proof enough that you find her desirable, she may not be so sure. "Tell her that she turns you on or you haven't been able ...

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