Your love checklist: sure, your relationship is totally smokin' right now, but does it have the legs to last? Here are the criteria to determine if this man, or any future lover boy, is the real McCoy.(Love And Lust)

* Lust, you know. It's like a piano falling on your head. But real love? That's a whole other animal. Real love has stamina. It stretches beyond the fact that you can't keep your hands off each other and (ohmigod!) love the same foods and movies. And most important, it includes a worthy guy who makes you happy as hell. Real love, however, is also a bit covert, so knowing whether your relationship has that superstrength fiber isn't all that clear-cut. The clues are sneaky and take some scrutinizing to suss out.

Of course, when you still feel romantically giddy, you're not exactly giving your union the Endurance Test. But you need to, especially when you suspect he ...