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Byline: Kay Itoi
This may be the year of monkey, but Japanese will remember 2004 as the Year of Loser Dogs, thanks to an ongoing national debate.
It started with Junko Sakai's book, "Loser Dogs Barking," out since October. Single and childless women in their 30s or older are makeinu , the author declared. It doesn't matter how successful, beautiful or happy they might be. They're all "loser dogs."
How rude, you might say. But Sakai, 37, has a disarming defense. She's one, too. Japan's loser dogs, she says, go around barking about how fine they are without a husband--all the while obsessing about getting married. Their problem is that they just don't have a clue how to do it. Instead of going out to meet a guy, they adopt a prized Persian cat. Instead of dating an available, "nice" (meaning boring) man, they go for the dangerously attractive married one. The result: hordes of loser-dog girls packing Tokyo's finest restaurants, yapping about how they totally identify with Carrie in "Sex and the City." (Japan being a couple of seasons behind, they haven't seen the series' happy ending.)
It's an issue close to my heart. Single until very recently, I'm still half-caught in loser-dogdom, along with my dearest friends. I particularly resent the Japanese government's blaming falling birthrates on the fact that women are marrying increasingly later in life, if at all. Yes, nearly a third of Tokyo's female thirtysomethings are single. But the figure is 44 percent for men. (Loser dawgs?) Yet nobody blames them. Why?
Sakai's book has sold 150,000 copies--a big hit. In offices, cafes and sushi bars, as well as on the Net and in the media, women debate if loser dogs are really losers, and if so whether it's too late to find happiness. Not long ago I overheard a group of women in their early 20s separating "cool" loser dogs, ...
Source: HighBeam Research, Loser Dog Nation.