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Anticlimax.(Ask Cosmo Anything)(Brief Article)

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| November 01, 2003 | Kurtz, Irma | COPYRIGHT 2003 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan. All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

I love my girlfriend more than anything, but sexually, we have problems. She says she doesn't like to orgasm because she hates to lose control. I'll take her right to the edge, but then she makes me stop. I'm really frustrated because I want her to love sex as much as I do. What can I do to convince her to climax?

First, let me say bravo to you for recognizing that it's your problem as a couple, not hers alone. That being said, there is the possibility that not only does she not want to orgasm but also that she can't. Either way, the issue here is trust: her trust in you and her trust in herself. Chances are, she allowed herself to be vulnerable once, not necessarily sexually, and was hurt. Time is your ally here, and the more you show her your respect and love, both in and out of the ...

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