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His first time sex turn-offs: some test-the-bedsprings moves will leave your guy lust-sapped.(his point of view)

Cosmopolitan

| October 01, 2003 | Campos, R.A. | COPYRIGHT 2003 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

* Sleeping with a girl for the first time is every dude's most-anticipated new relationship moment. It's our chance to wow you with our pleasure prowess--and find out if you're okay with our back hair and butt sweat. But certain things a woman does--maybe instinctively--can make a guy more anxious than amorous. To ensure that first night lives up to its hype, avoid these passion-premiere blunders.

complicated clothes and makeup

No surprise, men love lacy lingerie. But what's the point if your little number consists of so many frustrating snaps, buttons, and zippers, we have to call a locksmith to get in? Just as distracting is a chick who comes to bed with full-on makeup. "Right when we were going to do it, my ex kept interrupting the moment to see if her lipstick had smeared," recalls Steve, 25. "It was such a buzz kill--I felt like switching on Leno and asking her to leave." Trust me, there isn't a guy on the planet who doesn't prefer the au naturel look to intricate getups and beauty gunk.

OD'ing on mushy stuff

Flowers, candles, R. Kelly songs ... These romantic props leave the average guy self-consciously wondering if the night has way more significance than he's prepared for. "When Kim brought me back to her place for the first time, she lit incense, played soft music, even draped velvet fabric across the windows," says Bill, 29. "It made me worry that I couldn't ever ...

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