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"I have to ask him to do it three times." (spat of the month).(Brief Article)

Cosmopolitan

| August 01, 2003 | Goins, Liesa | COPYRIGHT 2003 Hearst Communications, reprinted with permission of Hearst. This material is published under license from the publisher through the Gale Group, Farmington Hills, Michigan.  All inquiries regarding rights should be directed to the Gale Group. (Hide copyright information)Copyright

"Guys are really sensitive to feeling nagged or ordered around," explains Alon Gratch, Ph.D., author of If Men Could Talk. "If he thinks this is happening, he'll just tune out your words." Make it clear you're not commanding him by first using humor to grab his attention ("Hey, do I need to take some clothes off to get a little help around here?"). Then soften your request by posing it as a question ...

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