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If you ask a dude what type of chick blows his mind, he's unlikely to say the mousy, timid variety. But a bold babe--now that's sexy. Women who ooze self-assurance are more challenging and exciting in and out of the bedroom. Plus, they aren't afraid to go after what they want, ditching game playing for man-friendly directness. You don't have to hog-tie a guy to prove you're into him. Just show off your take-charge, side with these four gutsy moves.
surprise him with plans
Men have been trained to believe it's up to us to ask the woman out and arrange the date. And we're usually happy to do it. What would psych us up even more, though, is if you sprung night-out plans on us. It alleviates the pressure of coming up with something interesting. Also, being on the receiving end of an out-of-the-blue invite makes us feel totally desired. "One afternoon my new girl called me with Reds tickets and a dinner reservation," recalls Andrew *, 24. "How cool is that?'"
call his bluff
Guys have a propensity for getting a little cocky. But when our arrogant side emerges, we secretly crave a chick who will put us in our place. The reason? A woman who sees through our BS challenges us to stay on our toes, and that creates sexy tension and sparks. "One night at a club, I was trashing women's basketball, expecting the girl I was with to laugh at my jabs," says Edward, 30. "Instead, site joked to everyone tit our table that a couch potato like ...