Hot for higher-ups. (Agony).(man has love affairs with high-ranking women coworkers )(Brief Article)

I meet plenty of women socially, but I always end up having crushes on coworkers, usually women in a superior position. It has happened a few times already, and in one case, I lost my job as a result of my office affair. I have no problem dating, so why do I end up in these complicated relationships?

Office affairs are always problematic: They inspire gossip and jealousy; they waste paid time; they distract from work; they are frowned upon by administrators. And it's exactly that element of secrecy and danger that makes office affairs so irresistible. But the fact that you're consistently attracted to your superiors leads me to believe that you are the kind of guy who is drawn to a challenge. When a man seeks this sort of thrill in his sexual life, it's often because he gets off on the idea of bringing a strong, powerful woman ...