AccessMyLibrary provides FREE access to over 30 million articles from top publications available through your library.
Create a link to this page
Copy and paste this link tag into your Web page or blog:
Fantasy fallout. (Agony).(loss of interest in sex after acting out fantasy )(Brief Article)
About a month ago, my boyfriend and I acted out a rape fantasy of mine. Even though we had mapped it all out, I freaked. I yelled at him to stop, but he thought it was part of the game and kept going. Afterward, he felt terrible. But now I've lost interest in having sex with him. What can we do to fix this?
Any couple who decides to risk acting out a fantasy with pronounced S and M elements must first agree on a word or gesture that means stop. It could be as simple as just saying the word blue. But unfortunately, you didn't do that and are now forced to deal with the consequences. Rape is a crime, but strangely enough, it's also a somewhat common female fantasy. Rape is about surrendering control, and that is what you did by agreement. It's understandable that you resent him for going through with it when you were so frightened. ...
- Student Held For Putting Rape `Fantasy' On Internet
- Newspaper article from: Chicago Sun-Times February 11, 1995 700+ words
DETROIT A U.S. judge ordered a University of Michigan sophomore held without bond Friday for writing a fictional story about raping a classmate and sending it over the Internet. Jake Baker, 20, is charged with interstate transmission of a threat, a federal crime that carries a maximum penalty of
- The nature of women's rape fantasies: an analysis of prevalence, frequency, and...
- Magazine article from: The Journal of Sex Research Bivona, Jenny Critelli, Joseph January 1, 2009 700+ words
...that the two leading explanations of rape fantasy stand in direct contradiction to each...lies in determining what goes into a rape fantasy. What type of force is typically used...subset of sexual fantasies. The term rape fantasy follows legal definitions of rape and...
- This game could be fantastic: Think again.
- Newspaper article from: Tulsa World (Tulsa, OK) December 3, 2006 700+ words
...this season upright He's getting slammed without All-World Orlando Pace in the offensive line. Every Ram has had a fantasy fallout, except Steven Jackson, who is finally getting the ball enough. Get some backups for Bulger if you haven't already...
- Women's erotic rape fantasies: an evaluation of theory and research.(Report)
- Magazine article from: The Journal of Sex Research Critelli, Joseph W. Bivona, Jenny M. February 1, 2008 700+ words
...We will evaluate existing theories of rape fantasy, seek out other theories that can be...consistent manner? Which aspects of rape fantasy does the theory address and which aspects...validity of the various theories of rape fantasy would be premature. Early researchers...
- Esquire and its readers shouldn't be too quick to believe in 'Do Me' feminism....
- Newspaper article from: Knight Ridder/Tribune News Service Weiner, Jennifer March 7, 1994 700+ words
...bustiers, rescuing men from history's slagheap, taking the rape fantasy and reclaiming it as their own. Sound like fun, doesn...the forefront of this new movement. And can reclaiming the rape fantasy really be the most important thing on the ``to do'' list...
- Frankly, My Dear: Gone with the Wind Revisited.(Book review)
- Magazine article from: Cineaste Fidler, John September 22, 2009 700+ words
...confronts the difference between the criminal act and the oft-used phrase "rape fantasy": "There is a world of difference between 'rape' and 'rape fantasy' and can be expressed in one word: control. The point of a fantasy is that...
- Rape: Behavioral Aspects
- Encyclopedia entry from: Encyclopedia of Crime and Justice PRENTKY, ROBERT January 1, 2002 700+ words
...immediately antecedent events than by any longstanding, recurrent rape fantasy. The sexual assaults of the Pervasive Anger type are driven...is not sexualized, and there is no evidence of protracted rape fantasy. The two Sadistic subtypes evidence poor differentiation...
- Imagine ampagne, candlelight, a man at the door who craves...
- Magazine article from: O, The Oprah Magazine July 1, 2002 700+ words
...column and get to the bottom line. What you need to know is this: There's no such thing as an inappropriate fantasy. A rape fantasy is not proof that you want to be raped; a lesbian fantasy is not proof that you're gay, any more than a heterosexual...
