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Should you stay friendly with an ex? A new partner might feel threatened if you pal around with a past love. (Dating And Relating Debate).

Cosmopolitan

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* Despite splitting up three years ago, Elizabeth Hurley and Hugh Grant have remained close. Grant says they still speak almost every day, and after Hurley made him one of the godfathers of her child, he said, "She's my best friend, probably always will be." Often new partners in a relationship feel threatened by such chumminess between exes. So we asked Cosmo readers, should you continue to socialize with an old flame?

YES: staying friendly is fine

65% WOMEN

61% MEN

"Guys you used to date know you better than anyone else--of course you should stay friends with them. Plus it's great to get an honest male opinion about stuff."--Margaret, 19

"I'm good friends with a few of my former boyfriends, and my new guy doesn't mind when we meet for lunch or drinks. I think as long as you're able to show your current man that you have eyes only for him, he will trust you to be friends with whomever you please."--Christine, 24

"I think it's cool to be chummy with an ex. There are some people who make better friends than lovers."--Aimee, 29

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