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Whenever I'm having sex with my girlfriend, I always imagine other men in my place. Sometimes, when I'm giving her oral sex, I ask her to describe sexual encounters with men from her past. I know I'm not gay, so why would I get off on fantasizing about my girlfriend with other guys?
We all have a bit of the voyeur in us, which can manifest itself in a variety of ways--this just happens to be yours. Basically, it's a more elaborate form of dirty talk, and as long as your girlfriend doesn't mind, there's nothing wrong with getting turned on by her titillating tales of past affairs. (Plus, there's the added benefit that you get to find out exactly what she likes in bed.) But if you've done this with other girlfriends and it's the only way you can get sexually excited, then it could be that you're insecure as a lover. Does imagining other men in your place alleviate ...
Source: HighBeam Research, Ex-men fantasy. (Agony).(Brief Article)