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I've been dating a guy who I really like, but I haven't told him that I have genital herpes. After a night of drinking, we ended up sleeping together for the first time without a condom. I wasn't having an outbreak, but I'm scared that I might have given it to him. How should I handle this?
Hello! Why didn't one of you have a condom handy? Damn it. I In this day and age, two new bedmates must always use protection until they know each others sexual histories! Otherwise, one or both people could end up with regret, guilt, and fear ... if not something worse. Unless you make a habit of getting drunk (in which case you have an underlying problem besides your sexually transmitted infection), I would bet that you drank yourself silly precisely because you didn't know how to tell him about the genital herpes. In general, the best way to inform a partner is to do it sober and before sex. Even though it is unlikely--though not impossible--that you passed on ...
Source: HighBeam Research, STD slip. (Agony).(woman with genital herpes has unprotected...